Sex is the core function of Humankind. It’s either looked at as dirty and forbidden or appreciated for its true creative essence. Whether it is just A casual twat tryst or a Midday dick delivery, setting intentions behind your sexual encounters before they happen can help you to better understand what is needed in order to reach full sexual liberation. Taking an organized, cosmic approach to sex will help you to utilize that time that you’ve set aside to release those pent-up endorphins, in an intentional way.
In certain tantric & Kemetic teachings, there are levels of divinity that can be unlocked through a proper consensual swap. These “realms’’ bring feelings of a deeper connection between one & their senses while embracing the present moment. This requires only a mild level of preparedness and gratitude to create these tender exchanges. Within the hook-up culture of today, society acknowledges the external pleasures but doesn’t outwardly consider sex to be cherished as a form of expression that should be treated with care and mindfulness.
Yes, sex has the power to give us transcendent awakenings from within. Our expectations around it will determine our ultimate actuality. Life is short! Don’t miss out on the blessings…or orgasms that you deserve. Ever get hot just thinking about your Sex buddy? The brain is a powerful sexual organ, so having imagination sessions can help to shape and manifest these thoughts into reality when the time comes. Getting the mind in the mood is one of the best ways to stimulate womyn especially.
Personally, I enjoy putting in the time and effort to spark stronger intimacy with my partner. I have for sure developed a checklist in my head. My sex drive is already high, and my mind tends to wander to love making a lot! But on the actual days that I plan to be devoured, I think about the kinetic energy that I want to create before I even see my partner.
Sending out a risque text to my lover to let them know what to expect later is always fun. To prepare my holy temple (body) I moisturize my whole body down with my homemade coffee oil for over 15 minutes in the mirror while alone, this sounds dramatic but puts me in the ultimate lulled state of mind. I burn a sandalwood incense or lavender candle. These scents promote a sense of relaxation in the body and alertness of the mind. My sex song index is filled with more than bedroom anthems, I also throw in confidence-boosting tracks mixed with feel-good self-love hits. It’s all about the vibes baby! The aftercare is probably the most important part, this can also create true intimacy with your lover. Eating some dark chocolate or fruit with some cuddle time is the best way to lock in the inwardness that just went down. That moment of clarity after an orgasm can be even stronger with a quick meditation of gratitude and rid of any leftover stress.
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After asking others how their pre-romp protocol usually goes. I received ample insight into the variety of things people do to create their individual sexiness. Sharing with friends or your love can be helpful, reminding us there's no exact right way to prepare for a shag.
What are your dick appointment/coochie consultation rituals?
⦁ how do you set the scene for the ultimate romp activity?
⦁ what do you do to prepare your physical temple to be praised and worshipped?
⦁ Do you have a go-to, scent or oil that you put on, candles? Do you have a sexy playlist or other mood enhancers?
⦁ name at least 3 must-have songs for your bedroom frolic…
⦁ How do you mentally prepare to be open to receive loving? Do you have a full-blown conversation with your womb or do you depend on your partner to wake your libido up? Do you have the condoms out or do you keep it tucked in the drawer?
⦁ Do you have better sex when you're full of joy or when you want to bummed & need a release?
“ I like to set the scene by making sure my partner already knows what's going down when they get there. I prepare by showering, brushing my teeth, lotioning myself with my best smelling oils or body butter, stretching. My favorite oil to wear is Rose because it's very feminine and makes me feel sexy. I do not have a sex playlist. I like to drink a little bit because it makes me more slutty. I don't have 3 must-have songs but i enjoy hearing something slow that i can grind my body to, think of the guitar riff at the end of Redbone by childish Gambino. I usually don't have to prepare mentally because I already know what time it is when they get here, If it's unexpected that's even more exciting. I have better sex with myself when I'm full of joy and better sex with Men when I'm bummed” — JANNIQUE
“ I like to dim lights and light candles. Watch porn clips from Twitter. I kinda just go with the natural chemistry. I don’t like to have sex when I’m upset, I don’t want to transfer negative energy. When I need a release I just do it myself 😄’’ — Antonio
“The most that I do for setting the scene is making sure that the space is clean and smells good and the lighting is on point. the lighting is the most important to me because it sets a certain mood. I love low light or sexy color lighting. like maybe blue or red lighting. I usually like to wax and shave my legs and pits. my legs are more important than anything because they’re long and glorious and my partners in the past have always enjoyed touching them and having them wrapped around them. so I make sure they’re smooth as fuck. if I can! and I shower or take a bath, of course! I’m not really that big on perfumes and oils. I have a few perfumes from Bath & Body Works and I most likely will put one of those on (In The Stars is my favorite) I also put shea butter on my entire body. that counts too, doesn’t it? back in the day, I used to smoke weed to enhance my libido, but I don’t smoke anymore.
name at least 3 must-have songs for your bedroom frolic… Little Dragon — Cat Rider, dvsn — Too Deep, Giveon — World We Created
I don’t talk to my pussy. she gone do her job. always, haha! but I do talk to myself. I will be overthinking sometimes and that will fuck a whole situation up. so I talk myself up, make sure I’m feeling sexy and poppin’, that way I can enter whatever situation with confidence and poise. if there are condoms involved, they’re OUT AND ABOUT. no need to be subtle nigga. put the glove on niggaaaaa.
for me, nothing is better when I’m bummed. my best experiences happen when I’m filled with joy. “— Celeste
